love to knot, or knot to love?

while i was talking to leena abt this, i said 'im gonna add this to my blog' and she said 'add it to your head' but its worth talking abt here anyway.

you know we get really close to someone, and then they turn out to be shitty people, but we never wanna let go because we don't want to believe that those people are shitty. or maybe we do believe those people are shitty, but we think we can deal with it. truth is, we can't. but why dont we ever give up?

most of us opt for the 'love to knot' option, even though we know we're probably never going to be happy with the shitty people as life partners. all of us know that 'knot to love' is the safer option, keeping in mind that the person in question is actually one of the nice guys (who, by the way , always finish last. thanks leena)

so why do we get a kick out of choosing the more difficult option? faced with the choice, i know i'd pick the one thats going to get me in trouble. good thing im not facing any choices right now.